No words ..only gratitude ..and a big Thank You!
Finally after all these years .....here's to the beginning of what was there....what is there and hopefully what will remain. So here are my Thoughts&Words -Online!!
I had a fantastic experience sharing insights on "Adapting to AI Evolution" with over 100 enthusiastic students at IEEE & MEA Engineering College! We explored the core concepts of AI, its history and impact, and discussed key components such as machine learning, neural networks, and data science. We also covered the challenges faced by newcomers in the field and essential skills and strategies for thriving in AI. A big thank you to the IEEE & MEA coordinators and Professor Rahul for organizing this event. Looking forward to more opportunities to engage and support the next generation of AI professionals!
Thank you TMOD, did as you have asked I Jumped! Now will you ask me to sing as well?
Before you do ….let me sing a rhyme or probably recite it…I tried hard to impress the little
kids around me with this..I have failed many a time ! but never gave up!
Here I go again ……come on and unmute and sing along!
5 little monkeys jumping on the bed
1 fell down and broke their head
Mumma called the Dr. and the Dr. said
No more monkeys jumping on the bed.
Fellow Toastmasters and Dear Guests
We Crawl, We Stand, We Walk & We Run. and Sometimes We Jump,
Jump over obstacles , Jump over hurdles….We Jump in Joy ..like Virat too! (The Ind vs Pak ICC game was to begin)
Jumping is associated with sports …..like long jump, high jump, like they hop skip and jump!
High Jump as a sport was very fascinating for me in childhood and it still is
While I still remember my friends, seniors at school would just compete to get the medal in
High Jump so that they get the individual award in sports since High Jump would be the only
differentiator. I wasn’t good at High Jump at all …..this did not stop me from learning about the sport.
Being an avid quizzer,… did read about the sport, the winners, the records and off course the
rules … I’m sure hardly anyone cared about the records and winners…here I was…
One thing that I could never forget was who won the gold medal in the Mexico Olympics in
1968………… Any guesses anyone ??? Yes it’s a quiz question… Dick Fosbury yes he won the gold for high jump! Now let me tell you that’s not his claim
for fame! So you may ask what was it then?
In high jump till 1968 and for many years later…..jumpers used to jump over the bar with leg
first and then followed with their body and head…… we call it the straight jump…
What Fosbury did was he would run in angle towards the high jump bar and would go with
his head first followed by his back and legs……..This was unique and weird but he still was
successful ….. This is known as the Fosbury Flop …yes Fosbury Flop and not Flip!
With this I learnt in life we have many challenges, some of the challenges are daunting
too….remember try to do the different or the unusual that may help you to overcome the
challenge… Don’t fear and off course Practice and trying new things could help! Like The Fosbury Flop!
High Jump is a unique sport ….you must be wondering why! Let me tell you its uniqueness
A jumper gets 3 chances to jump over the bar! If one does , the bar is raised …and again gets 3 chances… till there are a few people left say
4 or 5 …then 3 then 2 and finally there is 1….. remember the winner is declared only when the winner fails to jump the raised bar!
You aren't a winner until you have failed.
This will help you to stay humble and also strive for excellence,
Aren't we scared of failure. Champions are comfortable with failure …
Yes it is okay to fail and it is not the end of the world.
So its important to believe in your ability to Jump and over come …After every success you
raise the bar… Remember the Fosbury Flop !; You are not a winner until you have failed!
So Sathya Jump back to your seat ! Thank you!
Accountability is a noun which means "the state of being accountable, liable, or answerable" as per the dictionary definition. Does "Accountability" & "Responsibility" mean the same?. Well, there are differences and one of the main difference is "Responsibility" can be shared, however "Accountability" cannot be."Responsibility" is when somebody says " I have given you a task and you are responsible for the delivery of the task".
On similar note "Accountability" is the sense of ownership of the outcome beyond the task like the result.In today's context, there is a concept of "Shared Accountability" is when all team members are responsible for team outcomes, not just the leader or manager, typically in an ideal "Agile" team. The culture of "Accountability" is important as people become problem solvers and the problem are opportunities for learning. The focus is on "What is Wrong" rather than "Who is" is more important. I must say this culture emphasizes more based on fact finding rather that fault finding. Trust & Cooperation go a long way with the intent to take calculated risks and freely innovate with the future in mind.
So to create a "culture of accountability" is everyone's responsibility. Lack of accountability does lead to low team morale, lower levels of trust and teams becoming less engaged. Its important to make accountability a habit. In a culture of responsibility, yes individuals do feel motivated to work to complete the task at hand rather than the outcome. I don't want to complicate it by adding an element of fear in this.
One of the "Accountability" frameworks I have used in the past is called the RACI Matrix :
Responsible: Individuals who are responsible for completing the task at hand.
Accountable: Individual who is ultimately accountable for the completion of the task or deliverable.
Consulted: These individuals are typically the subject-matter experts on the task at hand.
Informed: Individuals who are kept informed of progress at each stage of the project and usually done in the form of one-way communication.
There are so many benefits of this matrix, but would like to mention it does establish clear lines of communication and does reduce duplication of efforts.
"A culture of Accountability" drives "Effective Leadership", It starts with values of "Honesty", the ability to say "I'm Sorry" voluntarily, seeking inputs from all in a bid to ensure things go well in the future and ensuring in being responsible rather than avoiding "Responsibility".
Even though I write about "Accountability" here as a Leader there is a fine balance between "Accountability" and "Responsibility" that one as a leader should strike a right balance of.
Stay tuned for more thoughts!

I
always wanted to write about how I met my wife to be though it was
not a Love story, it ended up being one... This was way back when
I was in Jersey city and as the Indian custom goes, my parents
were looking out for a “girl” for me. They happen to get a match
through the “horoscope” process. I’m sure the horoscope process would
be an interesting read but mine was “horror “ scope of filters.
First
the horoscope , then the region , the family , the education
etc.. oh my God what not! I did tell my parents that I’d like to see and talk
to the girl before I decide. They were OK. So it was to be “Video-webcam
meeting... the good old yahoo messenger days”.
I was in Jersey and she was in Chennai then. We
did schedule a time , however for some reason she could not make it. We
did reschedule again, and again she did not make it. I did wonder why... I
just wrote her an email asking if she was serious about this and if she was not
to just let me know. Clicked send! No response... I figured out may be it
was in the email I sent.
As luck would have had it , I did not see further traction on the proposals. I decided to go to India and test my luck. My dad called her parents and they said “No, they were working on something else”. The custom is then to return the photograph and part ways .My parents decided to go all guns as they thought I would run away to the US—the country that I loved—without getting married. They thought it was their responsibility to see me married off. So they advertised in the newspapers with a P.O.box. They went online when the .com portals just started, they also registered in various marriage bureaus. As luck would had it—many proposals, only 10 horoscope matches, 5 matches with region and family, 2 for a working professional... and then just 1... It was her. I still did not meet any girl for marriage yet. My parents called her parents again after the newspaper response.
Her parents replied back mentioning
“something else has come up knowing that it was me”. Nothing worked out
for a year, I still did not meet anyone in person for marriage. I
finally decided to get back to US and my visa interview was
scheduled. It’s so happened that one of my school friend’s parents stopped
by to check on me as to when I would leave to the US as they had a parcel for
their son. I did tell the uncle that my visa interview is just scheduled.
He made a comment “All you guys need is to be more responsible, you leave
your parents and you all go to the US and then find someone there and
never come back”. To which I replied “I’m ready to get married. Do you have a
girl in mind?” Immediately he mentioned there was someone he knew that was
looking for a boy.
This could be just a coincidence, but it
happened to be her. She was still in Chennai and I was in Bangalore and we
never met. Since the visa stamping was in Chennai, the uncle suggested
that he would talk to her parents and we could possibly meet with no
obligations. Her parents agreed I flew to Chennai, we met at Barista
Coffee and we just connected and decided—yes,
we will be. The rest is history, marriages are made in heaven...
The only girl I met in person for marriage I did marry finally.
-published for newsletter in Feb 2019
I’m sure sports would come to our mind and to the millions in India “cricket” ... yes we have now won 2 tournaments in a row, ICC in England and Tri Series in West Indies. Prakash Iyer in his book focuses a bit more on cricket considering India’s love to this game and also his passion to the game, when I read the book this was the initial thought. It also showed the fine balance of being happy, making a difference to yourself and to the world around you. It also focused on different habits to win in a subtle manner. Most people would call this a self-help book ... Think again!