Finally after all these years .....here's to the beginning of what was there....what is there and hopefully what will remain. So here are my Thoughts&Words -Online!!
Saturday, April 04, 2020
RPA 101- An overview
Tuesday, May 21, 2019
Blue Ocean Strategy - A book review

Saturday, February 09, 2019
How I met my wife ??
I
always wanted to write about how I met my wife to be though it was
not a Love story, it ended up being one... This was way back when
I was in Jersey city and as the Indian custom goes, my parents
were looking out for a “girl” for me. They happen to get a match
through the “horoscope” process. I’m sure the horoscope process would
be an interesting read but mine was “horror “ scope of filters.
First
the horoscope , then the region , the family , the education
etc.. oh my God what not! I did tell my parents that I’d like to see and talk
to the girl before I decide. They were OK. So it was to be “Video-webcam
meeting... the good old yahoo messenger days”.
I was in Jersey and she was in Chennai then. We
did schedule a time , however for some reason she could not make it. We
did reschedule again, and again she did not make it. I did wonder why... I
just wrote her an email asking if she was serious about this and if she was not
to just let me know. Clicked send! No response... I figured out may be it
was in the email I sent.
As luck would have had it , I did not see further traction on the proposals. I decided to go to India and test my luck. My dad called her parents and they said “No, they were working on something else”. The custom is then to return the photograph and part ways .My parents decided to go all guns as they thought I would run away to the US—the country that I loved—without getting married. They thought it was their responsibility to see me married off. So they advertised in the newspapers with a P.O.box. They went online when the .com portals just started, they also registered in various marriage bureaus. As luck would had it—many proposals, only 10 horoscope matches, 5 matches with region and family, 2 for a working professional... and then just 1... It was her. I still did not meet any girl for marriage yet. My parents called her parents again after the newspaper response.
Her parents replied back mentioning
“something else has come up knowing that it was me”. Nothing worked out
for a year, I still did not meet anyone in person for marriage. I
finally decided to get back to US and my visa interview was
scheduled. It’s so happened that one of my school friend’s parents stopped
by to check on me as to when I would leave to the US as they had a parcel for
their son. I did tell the uncle that my visa interview is just scheduled.
He made a comment “All you guys need is to be more responsible, you leave
your parents and you all go to the US and then find someone there and
never come back”. To which I replied “I’m ready to get married. Do you have a
girl in mind?” Immediately he mentioned there was someone he knew that was
looking for a boy.
This could be just a coincidence, but it
happened to be her. She was still in Chennai and I was in Bangalore and we
never met. Since the visa stamping was in Chennai, the uncle suggested
that he would talk to her parents and we could possibly meet with no
obligations. Her parents agreed I flew to Chennai, we met at Barista
Coffee and we just connected and decided—yes,
we will be. The rest is history, marriages are made in heaven...
The only girl I met in person for marriage I did marry finally.
-published for newsletter in Feb 2019
Saturday, June 01, 2013
Book review -The Habit of Winning
Prakash Iyer in an effective story telling/anecdote mode focuses on the habit of winning.You could pick any page, go back 1 or 2 pages to the start of the story and read... each story has its own little moral. This is not difficult even to people who don’t like to read. With this book one can start liking short stories/anecdotes. For the traditional reader ... this book too has lots to offer!
Why does “Winning” need to be a habit, we need to understand here the context of Winning ... generally winning is something that is “won” in true “Noun” sense. Winning as an adjective could mean successful or victorious like the winning team, it also could mean Charming or Engaging ... like a ‘winning child or winning smile” ... in end “to each their own” when it comes to Winning. Winning could be cultivated as a habit.
I’m sure sports would come to our mind and to the millions in India “cricket” ... yes we have now won 2 tournaments in a row, ICC in England and Tri Series in West Indies. Prakash Iyer in his book focuses a bit more on cricket considering India’s love to this game and also his passion to the game, when I read the book this was the initial thought. It also showed the fine balance of being happy, making a difference to yourself and to the world around you. It also focused on different habits to win in a subtle manner. Most people would call this a self-help book ... Think again!In the stories and anecdotes you will find stories that could change the way we think work and live.The stories are about leadership, teamwork, self-belief, determination and patience. We all know and have heard about the wars between the giants Pepsi and Coke but here we also get to hear Important Life lessons Prakash learnt from his cola days. It also contains stories from Olympic heroes and ordinary folks. Stories that will help ignite a new passion and a renewed sense of purpose in us and our team’s minds and hearts too. Now that’s the Key.... “A new passion and a renewed sense of purpose in our minds and in our team’s minds and hearts.”
I’m sure I could go on about this book, it’s also important to know a little about the author as that would give a background of his experience which he shares in his writing. Prakash Iyer has worked for over 25 years working with teams selling nearly everything from soaps to colas to watches, diapers and yellow pages. He is MBA from IIM-A and also a trained executive coach. He is currently the Managing Director of Kimberly Clark Lever. For those interested in buying generally this is what I’d say “A book chooses you.” Finally ending with this note “Winning isn’t everything but wanting to win is.”
Monday, April 01, 2013
Foxes
Typically they are known for being cunning ...Its interesting to observe that foxes are also resourceful and are tricksters , as they would outsmart other smaller creatures.
They generally are a solitary animal , and are used to snatch others prey ...like they are skilled enough to figure who they can abuse and get ahead and who they can charm to get away with.
Saturday, March 30, 2013
Get IT Right
Something to comprehend or something right
Life is changing under our own eyes
Carrot or the cofee bean
Everything has to go right
Environments change
The brain drains
Nothing remains
Yet thinking of what to write
Something to provoke or something right
New Year is ahead wishes galore
Hoping for the wave the future holds
Still thinking of what to write
Something valuable or something right
Vulnerable we are the vacuum exists
Complexity and chaos
Eventually this is what I write
Getting back to work & I got IT right
-republished again in Mar 2013
Thursday, February 21, 2013
Datapoints...
today you make decisions with certain set of data...
When certain sets of data points are added you may make another decision...so understand it does not mean your initial decisions were wrong.
Its important to gather as much as data points possible and make decisions...
Sometimes its important to also filter and abstract data points and make decisions.
Sunday, May 27, 2012
Another Run!
Yeah that requires a lot of practice and discipline .Lots of hope and thoughts ...and pain while running ! But was determined to complete it and did it .
There were a few thoughts on how the event organizers could do a better job ...They need to raise the bar on organizing marathon events especially when there is so many enthusiastic people to Run.
-Dustbins to create the culture of throwing used bottles etc into the dustbin
-Easy availability of medical supplies
-Increase the number of counters for distribution of food supplies
-Separate counters for Medals/Certificates
-Do not stop the run to entertain VIP traffic! --Stop it only for medical emergency or other emergency
-Somewhere the theme of the run gets lost!
The most important part ....As important the start is to the 10k ....make finishing too very important !
Thursday, January 05, 2012
“Life goes on with you and without you”
Death ---the end of life ;the total and permanent cessation of all the vital functions of an organism. I may have said this before that the tragedy of death is not life ....but what we let die inside of us when we live! In life we come across many people who are part of our lives ...
some to care for ;
some to love ;
some to understand ;
......
......
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some to complicate; :)
But its a very few that truly inspires!
If I were to describe her in 1 word "Dedicated" !
Dedicated to education and Balvikas ;
Many of us are a reflection of her "Good Qualities " We love you Always!
Miss you ... May her soul rest in peace!
Sunday, June 21, 2009
GIST OF THE GITA
Whatever is happening is going on WELL
Whatever will happen that will also be GOOD
Why you are repenting for whatever you have LOST
Have you brought anything with you which you have LOST?
Have you produced anything that is DRESTROYED
Whatever you have gained you obtained from HERE
Whatever you gave you have given HERE
whatever belongs today yesterday belonged to SOMEONE
It may belong to someone DAYAFTER
CHANGE IS THE RULE OF NATURE
Thursday, June 11, 2009
You Can!
so what you can is what you can till you have explored it!
Its amazing how these little secrets can make a difference especially when you are surrounded by lot of clouds,dust and dirt!
The ability to see clearly when surrounded by lot of clouds,dust and dirt is an ART...get it used it! A Moving thought!
Sunday, June 07, 2009
Another Session on REBT
Started off ...like the way nobody expected.. In the session talked about ABC theory.
Actions ->Consequences ...A causes C. But A causes C only with the Help of Beliefs.
Situations in the world do not disturb us It is our view that makes it so
-Epictetus
How do we acquire Beliefs-> Inborn Intelligence,Acquired Experience,& we create beliefs
Harmful Beliefs
I must do everything well and get appreciation from all, or else I am worthless
Others must be kind and just to me, otherwise they are worthless
Everything in the world must be easy for me; or else nothing is worth doing in the world
The first category belief makes us anxious and guilty
The second category belief makes us non-tolerant and less flexible
The third category belief makes us vulnerable and prone to Low Frustration Tolerance L-F-T)
Its important to challenge and get rid of the musts..
Live in the world as it is NOT In a world as it ought to be
Its important to Dispute the beliefs with Rational..Thus leading to Effective Attitude
Unconditional self-acceptance:
I am a fallible human being; I have my good points and my bad points.
There is no reason why I must not have flaws.
Despite my good points and my bad points, I am no more worthy and no less worthy than any other human being.
Unconditional other-acceptance:
Other people will treat me unfairly from time to time.
There is no reason why they must treat me fairly.
The people who treat me unfairly are no more worthy and no less worthy than any other human being.
Unconditional life-acceptance:
Life doesn't always work out the way that I'd like it to.
There is no reason why life must go the way I want it to
Life is not necessarily pleasant but it is never awful and it is nearly always bearable.
Finally Thanking Dr Albert Ellis and the person who got it my attention way back!
Monday, June 01, 2009
How to Let go!
Its important to be able to move on and not hold onto it.
So what are the ways to let go
1)Learn to Accept as the past cannot be changed
2)Be aware of your thoughts..come to the present
3)Start something new get involved in a new hobby or something involving
4)Its important to share and vent your pain and sadness with your partner or friend
5)Go back talk to the people involved if possible
6)Apologize and ask forgiveness if there is a need
7)Take a break...go for a vacation
8)Write...like they way I try to do to let go!
For me 1-8 work ...sometimes 9 & 10 too :)
Lesson learnt : People will still stab from the back! but you still be Honest Harmless and Happy the way you always are!
Sunday, May 31, 2009
Ran the Open 10km RUN-31st May 2009
Completed the 10k run ....lastly but not the least I did it!
Not a fitness freak but I believed I could do it and I just did it!
Its important not only to believe in oneself but many a time proving to oneself that one can do the impossible. Anyway hoping that the run gives all the people whatever they look forward to from the run!
Tuesday, January 06, 2009
Whats in a Name??
You would recive a zillion replies!
Anyway we chose "Siddharth"
Thursday, January 01, 2009
Relationships
1. Accept people as they are. You can't change them until they want to!
2. Don't expect people will do things for you. Well if they do ...good for you!
3. Be sensitive on what you say ...Its easy to hurt people! Sometimes hold yourself back!
4. Comparisons will always be there ....Avoid people who do it!
5. It takes 2 to tick ..Stretch your hand ...but don't hurt yourself..take your time don't hurry!
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Dec 9th 2008
yet another stage in Life!
Being a Father!
09-12-2008
time 12:42 pm!
"My son was born"
Welcome Son!!
Sunday, November 02, 2008
....Fair Governance
So what should one take?
Take each day as it comes .....Note Rome was not build in day
Stay focused with what one wants to do and do it.
Ensure you spend quality time with family and friends
Try to plan as much as you can.
Understand, be aware of your strengths and Use it.
Work on weakness ...
Discover new opportunities ,Be open to them
Finally there is risk in nearly everything ...
the point here is to mitigate them!
One needs to be aware in corporates white lies are told!.
People are manipulative ...everyone has his/her agenda.
As a part of Governance Corporates should ensure that they minimise white lies
hold people Accountable...Ensure Fair Governance!
Monday, September 29, 2008
GWT
Product Notes from Gooogle :Writing web apps today is a tedious and error-prone process. Developers can spend 90% of their time working around browser quirks. In addition, building, reusing,
and maintaining large JavaScript code bases and AJAX components can be difficult and fragile. Google Web Toolkit (GWT) eases this burden by allowing developers to quickly build and maintain complex yet highly performant JavaScript front-end applications in the Java programming language.
Here is the link...
http://code.google.com/webtoolkit/
It a good start since u don't need to know swings or awt etc!
Sunday, September 28, 2008
Don't Worry, Be Happy
From the Movie "Cocktails"
Performed by Bobby McFerrin
Here is a little song I wrote
You might want to sing it note for note
Don't worry be happy
In every life we have some trouble
When you worry you make it double
Don't worry, be happy......
Ain't got no place to lay your head
Somebody came and took your bed
Don't worry, be happy
The land lord say your rent is late
He may have to litigate
Don't worry, be happy
Lood at me I am happy
Don't worry, be happy
Here I give you my phone number
When you worry call me
I make you happy
Don't worry, be happy
Ain't got no cash, ain't got no style
Ain't got not girl to make you smile
But don't worry be happy
Cause when you worry
Your face will frown
And that will bring everybody down
So don't worry, be happy (now).....
There is this little song I wrote
I hope you learn it note for note
Like good little children
Don't worry, be happy
Listen to what I say
In your life expect some trouble
But when you worry
You make it double
Don't worry, be happy......
Don't worry don't do it, be happy
Put a smile on your face
Don't bring everybody down like this
Don't worry, it will soon past
Whatever it is
Don't worry, be happy